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28 Jun 2007
I'm recently engaged and trying to start some wedding planning, but my fiance is already causing me grief. I live near state college and he lives in johnstown, and is ADAMENT about having the entire ceremony in his town because his family is bigger than mine. I'm willing to compromise by having the ceremony somewhere between our two towns, and I don't think it's fair to make my family drive extra far just because he may have more people coming, but he gets angry any time I bring up the situiation. Am I being unreasonable? And besides, isnt it traditional to have the wedding in the bride's hometown anyway? Any advice on how to reason with him would be greatly appreciated! Thanks
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RE: Anonymous
22 Jul 2007
Did you ask him if there's any specific reason he wants it in his hometown? Is there any special significance for him other than he has more family there? Sometimes guys have special things in mind but it's hard to drag it out of them. My fiance wanted our wedding day on his parents anniversary. If there isn't anything special and he just thinks you should have it there because of his family you may want to sit and talk to him - without accusing- about this because if he has this kind of an attitude about something that should be fun for both of you and is not willing to compromise then you need to think about other major things that may come up later in your marriage and how both of you will handle them.
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